tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-56106673205442221282024-03-14T03:17:18.846-07:00Tips for Love | Dating | RomanceA site dedicated to Dating and Relationships. Collection of Dating Tips, Relationship advice, dating course, tips, links, articles on love, romance, flirting tips, how to get ex back advice etcJenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-51948938545613925792009-05-08T05:46:00.000-07:002009-05-08T05:57:51.076-07:00How To Maintain A Balanced Relationship<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Being in a relationship can sometimes feel like more work than play and there may be days when the bad seems to outweigh the good. But the most important element in a successful relationship is learning how to work through the tough spots. Arguments are inevitable but just because you and your significant other disagree doesn't mean you're doomed for splitsville. </span></div><span style="font-family:arial;"><ul><li><div align="justify">Make sure you know the skills to have a healthy conflict. When a couple is able to do this, they can actually have a more intimate relationship. So an argument from time to time can actually be good for a couple. Just don't hit below the belt!</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Never humiliate your partner publicly or throw something back in his or her face that has been offered to you as something private. These can be more a breach to your relationship than an actual affair. Lesson: what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Learn how to keep some elements of your relationship private.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Do not expect your mate to fulfill all of your needs and take time to understand how your partner's needs are met through words and actions. The "you complete me" scene in Jerry Maguire may have had you sobbing like a sucker but learn how to take care of your own needs and nurture your partners – but don't live for them.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Give verbal aphrodisiacs daily to your partner. Tell them they look good, that you loved the dinner they cooked. Who knew foreplay and wordplay went together so well?</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Try to go to bed at the same time every night, even if one of you has to get up later for work.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Ladies and gentlemen, it should come as no surprise. Sex is just as important as communication. Make sex a priority. Schedule it in. Take turns developing a sexual adventure for your partner. Use sex as a stress buster!"</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Put your partner first. Put yourself in their shoes and try to think what it's like to be them before making any judgments. Most importantly, trust them. So, the next time you want to go out and party with the girls instead of following through with your set dinner plans, try to think how you'd feel if the tables were turned.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">There is a fine line between being honest and being cruel. Be honest with kindness and use soft language, don't be brutal. So the next time you're ready to explode, take a step back and reconsider your approach. And every night before you go to bed, tell your partner seven things that you are grateful for in your relationship.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Become unbeatable together. Stay strong together under any circumstance and be each other's rock. You are each other's best friend, lover and confidant. Be loyal to one another and don't let anyone talk bad about your partner.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Stop criticizing and complaining to your partner. If you have complaints try writing them down in a notebook and read them later. You'll be surprised how petty they really are.</span></div></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com20tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-71059617033759469552009-04-27T02:50:00.000-07:002009-04-27T03:08:27.200-07:00Romatic Dining<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It's 8 o'clock; the love of your lifetime is about to walk in on a dinner set for two. What will they find? Well, if their partner researched and did a bit of "romantic" planning they should be engulfed in a setting of dimmed lighting, soft music, beautiful ambiance and all the time in the world. If this sounds like something you'd like to plan for your next romantic evening... read on.</span><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The first goal in planning a romantic dinner is to create the perfect mood. You should decide this now. Choices can vary from sensual to carefree. I'll<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQi0pDhyyESPFxHtkf3i4TqrPCUrPICSIRcIlB7qXRqsLp6tBZeXE7PIpAqEGznE8Bk_anFetr2KvgKWiUAAJ_J_Vf6lkQxdOAuw4zg8OAuTGfSwoNqhq6EhFw58hXfB_YzST47DtRvbby/s1600-h/1.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329309901975952018" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQi0pDhyyESPFxHtkf3i4TqrPCUrPICSIRcIlB7qXRqsLp6tBZeXE7PIpAqEGznE8Bk_anFetr2KvgKWiUAAJ_J_Vf6lkQxdOAuw4zg8OAuTGfSwoNqhq6EhFw58hXfB_YzST47DtRvbby/s320/1.jpg" /></a> address different foods & items you can have to set different moods in a bit.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Once you've decided what mood you want. The next thing you should do is decide where the ideal place that depicts this mood is. If you want an endless romantic night try and find a place that looks over a large body of water on the night of a full moon. Personally, my favorite way to achieve this is to rent a hotel room on the beach and have room service delivered and set up on the balcony or patio of the room overlooking the ocean. </span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">If passion is your plan, try setting up pillows all around on your living room floor with a bed tray somewhere near filled with finger foods to feed each other. </span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Take some time and research different settings and places around your city to find the ultimate spot. The time spent will most definitely be worth it.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Now that you have the mood and place decided, it's time to plan the menu. Plan your meal around the mood you are trying to create. Here are a few complete dinner ideas.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><strong>Hopelessly Romantic</strong> (great for couples just starting to date) </span><span style="font-family:arial;"><br /></div><ul><li><div align="justify">Meal of pasta, preferably the classic spaghetti marinara. </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Garlic bread.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Spumoni or other Italian dessert.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Bottle of vintage wine.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">White and red checked tablecloth.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Soft Italian music playing in the background.</div></li></ul><p align="justify"><strong>Passionate </strong></p><ul><li><div align="justify">Cook or order Indian food. Be sensitive to your partner's tolerance to spicy foods.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Buy a Kama Sutra book and practice a few methods on each other. </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Indian music playing in background.</div></li></ul><p align="justify"><strong>Carefree & Romantic</strong> </p><ul><li><div align="justify">Find a place near the ocean or water.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Prepare shrimp and/or a steak dinner.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Bottle of your favorite wine, chilled.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Soft jazz playing in background.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Have your date either right at sunset or on a full moon. </div></li></ul><p align="justify">Above all else, be creative. Each couple is different and has different tastes. The key to creating the "ultimate" dinner is finding those tastes.</p><p align="justify">After you've chosen a menu, it's time to stock up on your mood setters. An absolute must is candles, no exceptions with this one. Also, include soft music, chilled wine or champagne and flowers. Anything that can add to the atmosphere of the mood you're trying to create… do or get!</p><p align="justify">The following finishing touches are what will take your romantic dinner to ultimate. The planning, time it took to create and the atmosphere you've created is what will determine your success. Take extra care of the time of day you choose. A simple, elegant dinner set to the symphony of an extraordinary sunset can out do even the most elaborate of gourmet meals in a busy, trafficked setting. Don't forget to keep in mind the privacy you'll have as well. For added finishing touches try a few of these ideas.</p><ul><li><div align="justify">Hand feed each other while eating.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Cook and/or prepare the meal together.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Get dressed up even if you're just staying home.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Try to include their favorite foods as much as possible.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Use scenery to create the perfect atmosphere.</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Above all else, relax, enjoy a great conversation and have fun!</span> </div></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-52409544887479622952009-04-24T01:58:00.000-07:002009-04-24T02:16:09.646-07:00How to protect yourself while remaining open to love<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You know, online dating on the web is generally extremely safe, especially friendly and great fun. It is safe dating because it is distance dating - simple. You do not come into contact with others initially and this may well provide you with a comfort factor that also allows you to pace yourself and be rightly choosey. </span></div><span style="font-family:arial;"><div align="justify"><br />If possible though, you should try and follow a few basic online safe dating principles before deciding to pass over personal contact information to a relative stranger or arrange to meet them. It's all too easy to get a little carried away when viewing personal ads so take things slowly and take a rain check every now and again. The tips here may appear obvious to you but if you do try and follow them, it can only assist you in ensuring you have happy online dating experiences. And you never know, Mr. or Miss Right may be just round the corner. We really hope so. </div><div align="justify"><br />>>Always trust your instinct, after all it has got you this far in life already.<br />>>Take your time and view plenty of personal ads first.<br />>>Do not publish your phone number or email address in personal ads.<br />>>Don't take everything at face value.<br />>>Do ask lots of questions when chatting.<br />>>Ensure you feel comfortable at all times whoever you are chatting with.<br />>>If someone is abusive to you, block them straight away.<br />>>Don't provide your home or work address to anyone you have not met.<br />>>Before agreeing to a date, check that you know as much as possible<br />>>Don't allow yourself to be talked into anything, whatsoever! You are the one in charge. </div><div align="justify"><br /><strong>Also consider the following:<br /></strong>>>Take your time to get to know someone. Don't be rushed<br />>>A patient person will be happy to wait until you are ready to meet<br />>>Make sure you see plenty of photos if possible of the person you make friends with<br />>>Ask your date to leave a message in your voicemail box before hand if possible<br />>>Chat on the phone for a while before arranging a date, get to know each other<br />>>Always meet in a public place that is well known and convenient to you<br />>>Always tell a good friend where you are going, and who you are meeting<br />>>If possible phone your friend during the date to confirm all is fine </div><div align="justify"><br /><strong>And perhaps consider these points too:</strong><br />>>Always carry a cellular phone on a date if you have one<br />>>Lunchtimes are good for dating, convenient, and they have a time limit<br />>>Always make your own travel arrangements on a date initially<br />>>Do not accept a lift home on the first date or reveal your address<br />>>If travelling far, organize your own accommodation and confirm it<br />>>Ensure you have as much information about your date as possible<br />>>Keep your first date to a time limit so that you have an "exit" point<br />>>Don't feel you owe it to someone to meet them, you do not! </div><div align="justify"><br />When we think of safe dating by sets of rules like this it can all get pretty silly and scary but the fact is that we are introducing ourselves to strangers without the company of friends. It will always be a wise choice to have a friend close by even if they are sitting at a nearby table. But whatever you decide is best for you, keep your wits about you and enjoy your date !!</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-21365514650555443622009-04-19T16:30:00.000-07:002009-04-19T16:39:38.930-07:00The Steps To Breaking Up<em><span style="font-size:78%;color:#c0c0c0;">l<span style="font-family:arial;">ovingyou</span></span></em><br /><div align="justify"><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">Just the words, break up, indicate a situation riddled with impending pain and loss. Even if both parties involved agree it is in their best interests to part romantic ways, there is still a certain amount of loss attached. The best way to approach a break up is to offer the <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoW5gQ8nEkc0pxneUMZruvMtvemsWC1ey8yJQGE0H2rtDuQBCaXNylCUDgRCwosN9RvKqKfTLLV067tT3zxXQilbCGfYzIbxSVi5N1_qHLuv5yygxyBH7CRoBAulNxksnbnd8s9Yy7MfWs/s1600-h/1.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 200px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326551049706072818" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjoW5gQ8nEkc0pxneUMZruvMtvemsWC1ey8yJQGE0H2rtDuQBCaXNylCUDgRCwosN9RvKqKfTLLV067tT3zxXQilbCGfYzIbxSVi5N1_qHLuv5yygxyBH7CRoBAulNxksnbnd8s9Yy7MfWs/s320/1.jpg" /></a>person, to the best of your ability, a clean and clear separation. While there is no definitive way to do this, hear are a few guidelines that may help you.</span><br /></div><span style="font-family:arial;"><br /><div align="justify"><br /><strong>#1 - Specific Reasons</strong></div><br /><div align="justify">Don't let them wonder what went wrong. Give them the exact specific reason why you want to break up. It will give them an opportunity to really evaluate what they've done to contribute to the demise of the relationship, and hopefully apply their knowledge to their next one.</div><br /><div align="justify"><br /><strong>#2 - Where To Do It</strong></div><br /><div align="justify">If you think they will be terribly upset, try a public place that will afford you some privacy, but will deter your partner from possibly "acting up." If at all possible, try to do it some place you can be alone to really talk things through. Avoid places that contain happy memories from your relationship. You don't want to spoil them.</div><br /><div align="justify"><br /><strong>#3 - How To Do It</strong></div><br /><div align="justify">While following guideline #1 is important, you also want to make sure you are not damaging their ego either. Make it clear to them that the relationship isn't working for you both because you expect different things from the relationship, or that you've reached a line that you don't feel you can cross back over. Take extra care in your choice of wording, but never lie.</div><br /><div align="justify"><br /><strong>#4 - After The Break Up</strong><br /></div><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify">Your first meetings after a break up can be strained, at best. If you don't feel you'll be comfortable being around them until your emotions are more under control, try a cold turkey break up. Agree neither of you will have contact with each other for an agreed amount of time. Make sure you agree on the set amount of time during the break up process, or the ideal of remaining friends after may diminish.</div><div align="justify"><br />Your other option is to try a sliding scale approach. Agree to only call or see each other once or twice a week, and slowly narrow it down from there. Agree not to talk about certain things like wishing you were back together, or whether you are seeing anyone new, etc.<br /><br />If you must remain in contact with them because of school, work or family it is important to remain mature about the situation. Don't run out and date everyone. Allow your partner some breathing room and time to digest their newly found situation. Also, avoid gossiping about what went wrong. It just makes everything ugly.</div><br /><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong>#5 - Trial Separation</strong></div><br /><div align="justify">If you are unsure about wanting a permanent break up, try a trial one instead. To signify your commitment to trying to work things out, arrange an agreed upon dating schedule with your partner, maybe once a week. Arrange for the exact dates and times when you are asking for the separation!Remember, no matter how you do it, or what you say, if you are completely honest with yourself and your partner you both will be able to move on and grow from your experience. Like the common phrase says, "If it was meant to be, it will be." </div><br /><div align="justify"></div><br /><div align="justify"><br />So, guys, what are your thoughts? Share your thoughts, ideas or experiences about this topic :-)</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-13223172578578900792009-04-14T20:22:00.000-07:002009-04-14T20:33:40.212-07:00Heart Frame Hanger<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 1: Get 1 yard of 19 guage steel wire and wire cutters.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 2: Select one heart bead and two round beads.<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDd-qDreZV-BY4jQtRKXqsWkLguXr9-QUUeMWIqYpUDOTZvXsEm0WWct8IR0sTPC3jYuSr1Ti9FEYSFB3nnd-6lIA-yYq0r5S6feKZppTgxUXx9dalBTJGEcnkwJUHE-sLCLLtBkvFNGR2/s1600-h/p38b.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 266px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324755581461581810" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDd-qDreZV-BY4jQtRKXqsWkLguXr9-QUUeMWIqYpUDOTZvXsEm0WWct8IR0sTPC3jYuSr1Ti9FEYSFB3nnd-6lIA-yYq0r5S6feKZppTgxUXx9dalBTJGEcnkwJUHE-sLCLLtBkvFNGR2/s320/p38b.jpg" /></a></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 3: Center the heart bead in the middle of the wire and bend (as shown).</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 4: Bend the wire into a heart shape (as shown) with your fingers. Then, twist four times at the base of the heart.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 5: Bend a large "S" loop on each side. And, create three circular spirals and place a round bead on each end (as shown).</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 6: Place your small picture frame inside the "S" bending the wire loop over the frame width. Press the end loops back into the frame to secure the grip (as shown).</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Step 7: One 2" nail will hold your heart hanger and frame (see purple nail shown). Also, try oval and rectanglar shaped frames.</span></div><br /><div></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-35785048482643159842009-04-14T19:43:00.000-07:002009-04-14T20:16:32.502-07:00Make Soaps For Your Love<span style="font-family:arial;">Select your favorite color glycerin only <a href="http://jhlz001.dcushion4.hop.clickbank.net/">soaps</a> at your grocery store or crafts store.</span><br /><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><div><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324745284118326658" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgIxETkcvJ6xK-U2NNgqwRu76fbNmUYr9k-to9h6EkFMd2D2esTH8VFyDIH4MeKuDkSQ2MFtv5QNIPZ4b7A8o6rauE9pg7mDgM3_PZVc61ob1CB6hMo1Dh74KC3DIbiqdgLAumjuZcvMr6b/s320/p38b.jpg" /><span style="font-family:arial;">Use party or holiday molds, plastic trays or containers for this project.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324746172116907010" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigt4kuGyd3mhylnsmp47LK-U73ci18oyAcfR5RrIHUwcDKvYlQz91zVNTP6nn-HWet9mAtyLxNfMiiijIwFp-V8TeiLGYouAryGHvMo1FqAnoIqk69TQiG6UEz-0EJnDo4eeVyHzbCXQXd/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Melt the plain glycerin only soap in a small pan at med-low temperture... WATCH: soap should melt without smoking. (Optional: After the soap has melted add two herbal oil drops and a little glitter.)<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324746495252657618" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSr3Q4gnRUVndwiyC9OUBjz3OlRka5G31Z9ug5rgTIGx687UKMtOPEfT9l7WltzaUMG6MXNsykyRip25Icvf_Fjk80yXxS_nTfrtNAEs8VERYcoKJV-mAoplAuM6Ixf0FIR1_ZDEsOe2wf/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Pour melted soap into your molds (left) and into a flat container pour ~5/8" high.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324747144290194994" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKUlj4OxtJQ1GRTcbPtd0zwKIn6v5zbepOkVOtrXIvXT_ugee7FWCnK708bKGL5xISON6d3yMVLAvq1qVqwiV3rX7HH1LlX8EGv-TXUCjkys5KESZPB5OgM8bWICQ2HKJiN55kQvfpBpN7/s320/p38f.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324747139233230114" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn2_c3z0BpNjchrYEmNQLrEt9GWM7nTVVwiXnU7YNeokt5wA9KhOFuw-5-cDDY4R9eNXm7DgB3N9vwI-AELcWe3tb5ScEZhSe2SZlbpyOT7zjzhcgfkYmX_er4xG3zsv7Tpaq4fWPNSVK8/s320/p38e.jpg" /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324747138593390114" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicTkG_Jftl2hBdQ-tyxMxmnr-hHdPtm1EleM7viBjzM33Sbsb1ELeD2AxAP4xY7igsHjQMKcJg2JmUaaNoTcOiC0WWv8qhYkNNQ_GoNMPC1YKjarpvsXHRCDyeJVUZvCSWy_j0Uvk11cHy/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Press your favorite cookie cutters after the <a href="http://jhlz001.gpeverson.hop.clickbank.net/">soap</a> has just hardened (7-12 minutes). I use a toothpick to test, since the top can deceivably look hardened.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324748065330659506" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfTripu9S8UkCNSj2J2vIlGIPsKBTe_2v0xBg3DXuZUJ5c0GkrA7PvWjoF-C3Wizx6qasU-7InUWn871v6K9MvJc7wj5lsP3ak37h3MnrJ4DAguNQ1pgatEcRU7zOp2sYkUPMQlNOzkSKB/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Try cutting your own designs with a dinner knife!<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324748394749810706" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDe1_Uz-9257-2DDzmmFgctYGjgfakAtxAdbh-9lgic3pNKAkguSTMTlVFwqVo3jvpTyqS35vAskmiLQVUiTJC73WG7Zy5khb9u-n_wUAp7YARBVER-mIJB0hyphenhyphenkYDkrxXpw-GKhJTTrfXL/s320/p38e.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Release the soaps from the mold as soon as they've hardened.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324749751079984962" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7pc8_eUKB_dLDf0MNdUhmqpwSy735T0BhB0xTkHcL-NOpRwW7uj2k6KlkpoyyTfBC1YDdhX6pv8Qy7Uz0z4M2kb4mJbyDxS5oEtICG3W3ZpOpIsVQHE086XWL7iguhfYAIgg5gZor97m4/s320/p38f.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Remove soaps from cookie cutters and lay them on a flat surface until hardened.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 100px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324749087552968690" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCcKm0OkA-QMnnfTicWd8obJ74j2Wg0VzNMcFLmmbStS-UlWR_DQJSB_YAdDGj3uSwItjV5z0_lysfB78ZwPrIQBlviqp4ggNHGNQJnJErV6F6SE79VykHDLTKstRKnYSE9QiCs6qjrKGd/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span><span style="font-family:arial;">Enjoy and share different uplifting, energizing and relaxing herb soaps.<img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 233px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 254px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5324750266137338626" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeweGtYdYN2ZNd-FKz3g0bGJHpNgKivSP_gEKiEpmpA0_Bi-r66Cs8kx-b6utlq9TuHN5xst2b8u0JaxCSH4qi7szNV5jbGXTqy5BRZsfUQEETcYvhkZ45MIeJS8UatNGNvdN3yJQksu9H/s320/p38b.jpg" /></span></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-66232518976083386372009-04-14T18:37:00.000-07:002009-04-14T18:44:51.283-07:00Japanese Style Romantic Night!<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Greet your partner in only a Japanese style robe. When they see you, hand them a robe to change into as well. After they have changed, offer them some sake, herbal tea or Japanese or Chinese beer. Hand feed your partner their meal, then give them a wonderful massage.</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-77882331247282037832009-04-11T06:30:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:31:42.027-07:00"Thinking of You" Love Letters 3<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Dear AAA,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">How was I to know that you were watching me sleep? I awoke to see you laying there and just then, you smiled and said hi and that just melted me. I wish with all of my heart that I could wake to your beautiful eyes for the rest of my life.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I hated to leave but as I have told you, I left a big part of me with you. It is yours now so, take care and tread lightly. I wish that I could be with you now as you face so many struggles, but know that I am there in spirit and am praying for everything to work out for you. No matter where this life takes us, together or not, know that you will always be in my heart and "my favorite." </span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Love always,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">BBB</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-25929881433944543122009-04-11T06:26:00.001-07:002009-04-11T06:30:23.304-07:00"Thinking of You" Love Letters 2<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Dear AAA,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It's the middle of the day and I was thinking about you, as usual. I want you to know how much I sincerely love the countless hours we spend talking. It means so much to me. It truly seems like I've known you forever and I honestly can't imagine life without you now. There will be no looking back, no second thoughts and no regrets. I love you and only you ... and that love will only grow stronger. Sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you're the best surprise life has given me and your capacity for love, caring, and understanding never ceases to amaze me. I've truly been blessed by finding you and I'll never let you go.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Love always,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">BBB</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-52012546690641317212009-04-11T06:23:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:30:07.080-07:00"Thinking of You" Love Letters 1<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Dear AAA,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Hey, Honey ... I miss you. I'm just here thinking about you, like I always do. I hope you're as happy as me; Sunday is almost here again. The thought of you in my arms right now sounds so good to me. I just want you to know how much I love you.Ever since the first time I heard you on the phone and heard your cute voice, I miss you every second of my life. I knew I found someone special. I will always remember how sweet you are and how every time my phone rang and I heard your sweet voice I would smile and I was happy from that point on.... </span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Love always,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">BBB</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-78306055648286288222009-04-11T06:17:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:29:48.847-07:00"I Love You" Love Letters 2<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Dear AAA,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">From time to time you ask me why I chose you? What is so special about you? Well, the reason is simple. I chose you because you are YOU!!! I have never had anyone treat me the way you do. I have never had anyone just look at me and make me feel beautiful. You do that to me! You make me feel special and wanted. As liberal as I can be, I would never do anything to hurt you. You mean more to me than you realize. I am hoping that one day I can prove all of this to you! I want you for you!</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Love Always,</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">B</span>BB</div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-70422689857391263662009-04-11T06:15:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:29:33.475-07:00"I Love You" Love Letters 1<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Dear AAA,<br /><br />I love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of your voice. I love your gentle touch, and I love the warmth I feel when I’m by your side. I can't stop thinking about you when we are apart. I need you by my side. You complete me. You mean the world to me. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. You are the one I've always wished for. I never thought that I would ever meet someone as special as you. I love each and every moment I share with you.<br /><br />Love Always,<br /><br />BBB</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-1238489313161332462009-04-11T06:08:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:09:41.362-07:00Top 10 Romantic Gifts<ul><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Chocolate </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Flowers </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Sexy Pics of You </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Pillowcase Messages </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">The Gift of Time </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">10 Reasons I Love You </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Love Coupons </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Love Rocks </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">A Love Poem </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">A Love Letter</span></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-62933899326688562962009-04-11T06:03:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:06:59.997-07:00TOP 10 Date Night Ideas<ul><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Massage Night </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Moonlit Snowshoe Tour </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Baking for Two </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Around the World </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Your Favorite Decade </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Breakfast in Bed </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Dessert Date </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Bookstore Romance </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">Bowling for Two </span></li><li><span style="font-family:arial;">T-Shirt Decorating</span></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-44596323279075950332009-04-11T05:57:00.000-07:002009-04-11T06:00:08.158-07:00Top 10 Places You're Making Love<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#c0c0c0;"><em>Jennifer Good</em></span></p><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Feel like you and your partner are a little risky or adventurous? The most commonly citied locations where couples say they've been getting it on at are:</span></div><ol><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In a hot tub </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">At the office after hours </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In a car in the woods </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">On a trampoline </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In an elevator </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In the back of a truck outdoors </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In a department store fitting room </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">On a pool table </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">On the hood of a car </span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In the shower </span></div></li></ol><p> </p>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-21323093057449580972009-04-11T05:43:00.000-07:002009-04-11T05:54:58.891-07:00Lovemaking - Getting What You Want In Bed<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#c0c0c0;"><em>Brettani Shannon</em></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t let another night go by wishing and hoping that your man would get it right. Pleasing a woman takes knowledge and understanding. More than likely, your man would give anything to rock your world, he just doesn’t know how. Teach him how to please you by following our super sexy lesson plans. No need to share your plan with him; it will be our little secret.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You are about to embark on a serious training project and like any endeavor of this sort, it requires a good plan. One thing to keep in mind throughout the process is that you are training a man, and it calls for a bit more finesse than training say, a child, a dog, or an athlete. The best way to train him is to never let on that there is anything wrong. Instead, he should believe that you are expanding the adventure of your already wonderful lovemaking. In addition, secret planning will enable you to implement one of the most useful pieces of man-training: turning the neck. You have heard the metaphor that the man may be the head of the house, but it is the woman, as the neck, that turns the head in the direction she desires.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Smart women have figured out that if you allow a man to think that he came up with his ideas all on his own, he will be much more committed to following through with them. One of the key differences between a man and a woman is his need to be appreciated as a mastermind, a fixer, and a great lover. He actually needs that confirmation to retain his pride as a man. Women don’t need the ego confirmation like a man does. They need to be cherished, adored and respected. Play your womanly hand in this game of love and greatly increase both your chances of winning.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">To begin training your husband, you will need to choose which lesson you would like to start with. You don’t want to overwhelm him with too much at the same time; it is too easy to slip up and make him feel bad about himself. You might choose to work on foreplay first, or it might be what he does or doesn’t do during sex, or maybe it is the lack of adventure in your sex life that you choose to tackle first. The next step is to choose your angle. Here are a few options:</span></div><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Take a love quiz together. It will open up conversation about what things you always wanted to try, what things really turn you on, etc.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Open up a conversation by asking him about his desires first. Ask him what he really likes, what he would like more of, and what he’s always wanted to try. The conversation should then turn to what you really like, what you want more of, and what you’ve always wanted to try.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Go out to dinner and have a few drinks. Then, as a “spur of the moment idea,” share your sensual wish lists with each other, writing down things you both hope to experience on cocktail napkins so you can look at them again the next day.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Tell him what you want him to do in the heat of the moment. The closer a man is to climax, the more appeasing he is, so take the opportunity when he is hot and ready to tell him something you wish he would do. Say it in a super sexy way and refrain from criticizing him in any way. Say something like, “Oh baby, you feel so good… I want you to _____.”</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Mention something you’d like to experience when the two of you are doing something totally non-sexual, taking him by surprise with your non-shalant attitude. Imagine driving home from the grocery store and mentioning out of the blue that you have been imagining what it would be like to do it on the kitchen counter or wondering what it would be like to buy a sex toy together. That leaves it in his court, and odds are that you’ll have that fantasy come true before the week is out.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Introduce your desires and fantasies by construing a little fib, “A friend told me a story today at work. You wouldn’t believe what she tried with her husband last night…” or “I stumbled on an article about something interesting today and it made me so hot, imaging us doing it. It was all about ____” or “I had the hottest dream about you last night. You were _____.”</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Set up a role play rendezvous where you are in charge. You could be a sex instructor or dominatrix. That way, you can tell him what you want him to do and he will love the idea of being “schooled” by a hot sex master!</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Challenge him. Bring out his competitive nature with a sexy challenge. One idea, if you are sick of the hum drum five minute lay before bed, is to tell him that you will have sex with him anywhere, anytime, as long as it is not on your bed. Another idea is to make a game with him, a challenge of who can take the reigns and create the hottest sexual encounter. You each make a short list of things you want and swap lists. Include four or so things that you like that he does already and four more things that you want him to do. Don’t tell him to do the same, though. Let him put whatever he wants on his list, so he doesn’t feel like this is a project to make him better in bed, but just a fun encounter to have. Roll dice to see who gets the first night and have a blast playing out your challenge and see whose rendezvous works out best!</span></div></li></ul><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Whichever angle you choose, just make sure that you encourage him to lead you just as much as you lead him. He needs to feel like an equal participant in pleasing you, and after he’s trained, you won’t have to try! In addition, don’t treat every opportunity as a training exercise. Let the lessons go once in a while. The goal is to make him a better lover without damaging his self-esteem. After all, it is a well-known fact that confidence is the most important element to attraction. If you knock down his self-esteem, you won’t ever turn him into the perfect love machine.</span></p><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You don’t always need an angle. Definitely shake things up a bit. Remember that you are choosing one lesson at a time and you should try different approaches often so that he doesn’t begin to feel like his manhood is being challenged. Your training will go a whole lot smoother if he just sees you as being extra adventurous, not out to change his ways. Some secrets are worth keeping…</span></p><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Find sexy ways to let him know what you want from him.</span></p><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Talk to him sweetly, using your bedroom voice. Whisper what you want in his ear, but do it kindly. For example, if he is pounding you like a jack rabbit, tell him that you want to “feel him more, slowly.”</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Give him physical clues to what you would like. For example, if you want him to handle your breasts more, put them right in his face. Men can’t help but grab onto bouncing boobies.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">If you want him to alter the way he does something, try doing it to him first. It won’t take long for him to get the hint that you are giving him. If that alone doesn’t get him doing what you want, show him how you like it by guiding him. Move his hands or body and tell him, “Like this.” Telling him how you like it while it’s happening instead of criticizing afterword makes it more of an erotic experience than a “schooling.”</span></div></li></ul><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You need to teach your guy what you like. Encouraging him when he’s doing it right is the most effective training method. It is called positive reinforcement and it is the essence of man-training. During love-making is the perfect opportunity for it because it is the time when he is most receptive. Memorize these tips like the back of your hand and use them every chance you get through the training process and after. A man can never get enough positive reinforcement.</span></p><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Let your inhibitions go and your vocals loose. The tiniest inkling to let out a moan or tell him “yes” and you should let it out. Scream if you feel like it, men love it.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t over-reward. Make your reaction in direct ratio to the amount of pleasure he is giving you. Most of this will come naturally of course, but it doesn’t hurt to keep it in mind while you are on the mission to train.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Tell him that you really like what he’s doing and that you want to try it in a different position, in a different room, slower, faster, or whatever you want. The key part is to reinforce that you like what he is doing already and that you want more.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">If he really knocks your socks off, let him know by returning the favor. Blow his mind by doing something you know he loves. It may sound a bit impersonal, but a man’s mind works that way sometimes. This sort of reward system, if done properly, buries in his subconscious and he will associate doing what you like with getting what he likes. </span></div></li></ul><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The last stage of each lesson should be feedback. Voice a reaction to your lovemaking session, but do it with finesse. Use the tips below to close each chapter of training in such a way that his ego is in tact and you are that much closer to having the best sex of your life.</span></p><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It doesn’t have to be a formal discussion. In fact, the more casual your feedback is, the more he receptive he will be. For example, you could tell him, “You know, honey, I loved it when you ____ and I was thinking that next time, we could ____” and gently tell him what it is that you want from him.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Be open and willing to talk about your desires with him, but make sure you are inquiring about his desires just as much.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t always have suggestions. Give him a lot of encouragement by telling him how hot the sex was, how much you keep thinking about him touching you, etc. Again, don’t pretend to feel that way if you don’t, but there are surely things you could pick out of every experience to praise him for. He needs compliments just as much as you do.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Once in a while, it’s ok to give him a little sting. If he is doing something that drives you nuts, you may have to come right out and say it. Just make sure that when you do, he feels very loved and assured before and after. You don’t want to tack a sting onto a lesson already in progress. Let things ride for a while, then break the news, and then give him a while to get over the blast before resuming your lessons.</span></div></li></ul><p align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Be patient with your lover. Take one lesson at a time and give him a chance to master it before moving onto the next one. He wants to be the ultimate lover just as much as you want him to be.</span></p>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-14856932109663244852009-04-10T17:46:00.000-07:002009-04-10T18:00:36.605-07:00Romantic Love Tokens<p align="justify"><em><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#c0c0c0;">Jennifer Good</span></em></p><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Can an eraser and a rubber band be considered a romantic gift? If they're given with the right message, you bet. In fact, giving your partner something from the heart can be as simple as giving a few items you probably have in your desk drawer right now. Just attach a note to each item signifying it's importance, and even a toothpick becomes a romantic token of your affection.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The best part about using everyday items is they are easy to find, typically small enough to fit inside a crafted box, and can easily be mailed to a long distance love. Group a few together and you've got an instant Love Survival Kit as well. For more ideas see our list below.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Romantic</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Toothpick</span>: Because I "picked out" the best fish in the sea.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Flower</span>: In the garden of life, friendships are the flowers.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Lifesavers</span>: Because sometimes we all need a little extra help.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Cotton Pad/Ball</span>: To cushion rough roads we may be traveling.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Rubber Band</span>: To remind us to be flexible.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Safety Pin</span>: To bind us together.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Sweet & Sour Candy</span>: To appreciate the yin & yang of our personalities.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Candle</span>: Because you light up my life.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Hugs & Kisses Candy</span>: Everyone could use a little hug and kiss.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Happy Face Sticker</span>: Catch my smile, it's contagious!</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Band-Aid</span>: To help sooth hurt feelings.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Eraser</span>: So we start every day with a clean slate.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Tissue</span>: To dry any tears you may have.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Jewel</span>: You are more valuable than a precious stone.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">String</span>: I'll be there for you when you're at the end of your rope.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Bubble Gum</span>: Together we can stick through anything.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Lemon Drop</span>: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Mirror</span>: So you can see my most favorite thing in the world.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Popcorn</span>: Because thoughts of you keep popping into my head.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Jolly Rancher</span>: For all the times you make me laugh.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Sweet Escapes</span>: For all the romantic times we spend together.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Nestle Treasures</span>: I treasure you more than anything in the world.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Puzzle Piece</span>: You complete me.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Sugar Packet</span>: Because you are so sweet to me.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Permanent Marker</span>: Because you've left a lasting impression.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Clay</span>: We can mold our relationship to our own perfect ideals.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Match</span>: Because we're the perfect match.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Silk Rose</span>: I'll love you till this rose dies.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Pom Pom</span>: Because you give me the warm fuzzies inside.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Balloon</span>: Because together we can reach for the sky.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Measuring Tape</span>: Because no one can measure the love I have for you.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Naughty</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Lollipop</span>: I want to lick you in all your favorite spots.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Battery</span>: So we can keep going, and going and going all night long.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Candle</span>: The flames of my desire are burning hot.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">String</span>: At some point, let's get tied up.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Rubber Band</span>: You'll need to be flexible for all the positions we're going to try.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Dollar</span>: For the striptease I'll be giving you later.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Carefree Gum</span>: Tonight, I'm going to take all your cares away.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Starburst</span>: For when you need that burst of energy for our late night frolicking.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><span style="color:#ff6666;">Peppermint Patty</span>: For the cool sensations I'll be bringing you tonight.</span></div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Have an idea for another love token? Share it below for others to see!</span> </div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-18084497749045011412009-04-10T17:36:00.000-07:002009-04-10T17:42:45.850-07:00Sentimental Exchanges<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><em><span style="font-size:78%;color:#999999;">Brettani Shannon<br /></span></em><br /></div></span><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Exchanging gifts, favors, date nights and more are great ways to keep things fresh and exciting in your relationship. Whether you are well into your years of marriage or just starting out, it is always a good idea to introduce new ways of showing each other you care and to develop traditions you can look forward to again and again. Let your creative juices flow and see what fun it is to plan for each other and anticipate the surprises your love has in store for you!</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Plan a day of pampering for each other</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Set the date and then surprise each other with the </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiirzPk2TgKBSczFZBkcpsz3iGtKCxQcDUsmx6-326Y7Lo-wgGA78CSzzjLmm5EUzggqtgZluyhjkiD8hL8HLqp2l0-WbYh-ya1VdPN6DbfzyiC16QI7K8P6iDJJzLcBZ68EkrDh-LELLXM/s1600-h/1.jpg"><span style="font-family:arial;"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 155px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323227537672685474" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiirzPk2TgKBSczFZBkcpsz3iGtKCxQcDUsmx6-326Y7Lo-wgGA78CSzzjLmm5EUzggqtgZluyhjkiD8hL8HLqp2l0-WbYh-ya1VdPN6DbfzyiC16QI7K8P6iDJJzLcBZ68EkrDh-LELLXM/s320/1.jpg" /></span></a><span style="font-family:arial;">sweet plans you’ve made. He might want to give you a full body massage, paint your toes, and offer you chocolate-dipped strawberries for you to enjoy while he reads to you. You could surprise him with a shower for two where you exfoliate his body for him, then give him a foot massage, followed by feast of footlong sandwiches and last, but not least, cuddling on the couch with an action flick. Whatever your ideas of pampering each other are, it will be a wonderful day for sure!</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Exchange ornaments</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Write little notes with reasons why you love them and Mod Podge them to the outside of a plain ball ornament. Let it dry and wrap it up for a gift he’ll cherish every Christmas for years to come.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Plan a perfect date for each other</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">For this, make sure you have everything planned well in advance, and make sure you have enough time to set up the entire date. When it’s your turn to plan, choose activities that will sweep your love off their feet. Dinner and a movie is nice, but catering your evening (or morning or afternoon) to your partner’s interests is a special way will show you care. It will be great to find out what your love has planned for your date, too!</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Write each other love letters</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The cornerstone of many engagement and marriage retreats is exchanging love letters. Some have a particular theme, like what your hopes and dreams for your future together are or the things about the other person that you admire. Not only is it great for couples to read the loving thoughts of your partner, but it really helps the writer to take time choosing their words, looking deep and discovering desires and emotions that hide deep in their heart.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Swap favorite dinner nights</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Cook him his favorite meal tonight, and have him make yours tomorrow! They can be fancy and served in courses with dessert, served family style, or set up into his dream buffet – tell your partner exactly what you want, and let them do the same.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Compose poetry for each other</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Grab a blanket and find a peaceful place in the shade for the two of you to relax and compose poetry! You don’t have to be a poet. They don’t have to rhyme or fit any particular rhythm either. They can be silly or sweet, long or short. Just get creative and have fun! Bring along a finger foods picnic and a bottle of wine to complete the experience.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Commitment Vows</span></strong></div><div align="justify"><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Whatever level of commitment you are at right now (even if you are already married), you can write vows to each other! You don’t have to include “forever” or “’till death do us part” like in wedding vows. This is a creative way to put your feelings for each other into words. You can vow to kiss each other goodnight every night, to say “I love you” every day, to be kind even in confrontation, to write love notes and give gifts just because, to cherish every moment you spend together, to always be honest with them... you get the idea. Use your own personal style to write your vows. Be silly, rhyme, use metaphors - whatever feels right to you.</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-18109771216360482082009-04-10T17:31:00.000-07:002009-04-10T17:35:42.882-07:00A to Z Romantic Gift Ideas<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;"><em>Bob Narindra</em></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">A handwritten poem<br />Bouquet of flowers<br />Champagne<br />Dress or evening gown<br />Electronic postcard<br />Fur coat (synthetic)<br />Gift-wrapped candles<br />Hotel stay for two<br />Instructions for a love hunt<br />Just for you radio dedication<br />Kisses (Hershey's)<br />Leopard print anything!<br />Music from the heart<br />Newspaper ad detailing your love for them<br />Official certificate for best honey<br />Photos of the two of you<br />Quality time spent with your partner<br />Recording of your voice<br />Strawberries dipped in chocolate<br />Ten things you adore about your partner<br />Underwear or other sexy lingerie<br />Vows to stay true, written and framed<br />Weekend getaway<br />X-travagent home-cooked meal for two<br />Yellow roses<br />Zoo passes</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-29939089761929586652009-04-10T07:48:00.000-07:002009-04-10T16:55:17.448-07:00Romantic Text Messages To Your Lover<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;"><em>lovingyou.com</em></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Showing your feelings has never been easier since the advent of the text message. Anytime or anywhere you can instantly shoot off a message across the globe to the one you love, letting them know they are on your mind. Unfortunately, it isn't always easy coming up with witty romantic words of love. So, to help ease your burden, we've come up with a whole host of romantic messages that will set your love's heart atwitter with delight. If you have a great message that isn't included here, let us know and we'll include it in our list! Happy Texting!</span></div><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Let these words not only touch your eyes, let them go through your soul, and let them rest in your heart as you rest in mine…I love you.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You're still the one…</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Words alone will never be able to express the depth of my love for you.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">In case you didn't know, I'll be loving you always and forever!!</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Just when I thought it couldn't get better, you prove me wrong! I love you!</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Falling in love with you was the easiest thing I've done in my life.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Hand in hand and heart to heart my love for you shall never part.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Even though we are apart, my love you will never part.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I'll love the sun for days, the moon for nights, and YOU for forever.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Loving you makes my heart explode with happiness.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Rains fall, winds blow, the sun shines... it all comes naturally, just like loving you.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Simply said... I love you...</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Being with you is like having every single one of my wishes come true.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Loving you has been the best thing to ever happen to me!</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Just had to let you know... you're the best! I love you!</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">There is no long distance about love; it always finds a way to bring hearts together, no matter how many miles are between them.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You are the sun in my day, the wind in my sky, the waves in my ocean, and the beat in my heart.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">I wish I was there to hold you tight instead of just send this loving, "Good Night."</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Thank you for being the one who calms all my inner fears.</span></div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Your love is all I'll ever need. </span></div></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-86001568286372035632009-04-10T07:28:00.000-07:002009-04-10T07:42:48.419-07:00New Relationship Dos and Don'ts<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;"><em>Brettani Shannon</em></span> <div><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 163px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323072679429675970" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjXGaMhqSBYpP50Y6Bca-4EKF22wB_SraZtplc2imFEE3LlUsGiefseRh197lECV5C38qvUTYB0LgxDSyeupDhMGyzXAeotKXAQglfIP11z5M23oqXtGjeg-vEoMCDJpc6IeFT6CiKsdORF/s320/1.jpg" /><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The first few weeks of the love game is when one of two things might happen: romance and passion infects you, bonding your hearts forever more, or one of you flops and ruins the chemistry before it has a chance to take hold. Which will it be for you? Heed our tips and make sure your relationship kicks off with a bang.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Conversation</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Have normal, get-to-know-you conversations. Talking incessantly about how you feel and how great things are going between the two of you is nothing short of obnoxious. It projects a certain amount of immaturity that repels the good dates and attracts the wrong ones.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Pressure</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Pressuring your date to do anything is a big no-no. Once again, it is a sign of relationship immaturity as well as personal immaturity. You could beg your date to go to church with your family on Sunday or argue good reasons to stay the night with you -- the nature of your pressuring doesn't matter. What matters is that you are selfishly disrespecting your date’s boundaries. If a relationship starts off with one person pressing on the other’s limits or preferences, there are bound to be loads of regret by the end of it.</span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Taking Hints</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Pay attention to the clues your date is giving you. They may be inviting more intimacy, they may be trying to show you where their boundaries are, or they may be trying to subtly tell you that you’ve got dragon breath. Either way, you want to know, so pay attention. If you aren’t sure, ask; it is a far better option than making the wrong assumption.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Texts and Phone Calls</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Refrain from over-calling/texting to keep things light and friendly. Remember the guidelines for conversation even when texting. The “I miss you” text every day when you only just met is really annoying. Not until you are an “official” couple is it appropriate to text or call to talk about your emotions or anything sexual. Don’t call or text to tell them how nice their butt looked the night before. Save that sort of flattery for when you are in the moment, and even then, use it sparingly because it can easily be construed as trashy and rude. What you should focus on is getting to know the other person and letting them get to know you. Think of it this way… After every message or every phone conversation, the other person is going to mull over it in their mind and might even talk about it with a friend. They will dismantle every word you said and search for more meaning behind the words.</span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Honesty</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Everybody wants to put their best foot forward in a new dating relationship, but don’t pretend to be someone you are not. In turn, watch for warning signs that your date isn’t all they seem to be. Dishonesty, especially misrepresenting themselves, is a big red flag that shouldn’t be ignored. When you do get a clue that there are major differences in areas like spirituality, family, social ethics, or politics, be honest with yourself about the possibility of being truly happy with them. You are looking for a match and so are they.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Gut Instincts</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Listen to your gut. If you hear the little alarms going off inside of you, pay attention to them. It is easy to brush your feelings to the side in an effort to fall in love, but when you ignore your instincts over and over again, it gets more difficult to recognize when they are trying to alert you. Most of the time, later on in a relationship or a while after a relationship, one can look back and see the exact time during the first few weeks (many times in the first couple of days) that they had a gut feeling about their date and it turned out to be right.</span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Judgment</span></strong><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t be too quick to judge. Sometimes it is wise to look at yourself just as critically during a new relationship. For instance, if you are often turned off by how little men spend on you when they take you out, perhaps it is your value system that needs a check-up rather than theirs.</span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Maintaining Your Self</span></strong><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t drop everything else in your life. It is common, especially for women, to forget about themselves and take on the identity of their partners. That is the consequence of bad past relationships and lack of positive relationship role models. You can prevent losing yourself in a new relationship by keeping the things that matter to you a part of your daily life. Things like journaling, reading, exercising, and spending time with friends and family, all the things that help to keep you a healthy, balanced person, should remain high on your priority list. Make a point to enjoy the same things you normally do, even in the first weeks of a new romance.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Lowering the Bar</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Keep your standards high. Don’t talk yourself into being okay with something that you aren’t. Settling is a sure way to get yourself into a miserable relationship. Do you remember the last time you said to yourself, “I should have known when they… ?” If you aren’t sure what your standard is, make a list of all the things you want in a partner. If your date doesn’t fit the bill, don’t waist your precious time.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Planning and Paying</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It is a great idea to trade off date planning and date funding. Not to say that it should be a regulated arrangement of every other date or anything, but stepping away from the traditional system of men planning and paying for all dates can be a lot of fun and make it easier to get to know each other. Taking control of the rendezvous enables you to surprise them, impress them, and romance them. In addition, you can learn a lot about them by switching roles.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Alcohol Consumption</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">The general rule is to stay relatively sober for at least the first month of dating someone. Getting sloshy drunk anytime in those first few weeks is likely to be your kiss of death. They will undoubtedly see you at your worst and redeeming yourself from that is not an easy feat.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"><strong>Meeting Friends, Family, and the Ex</strong> </span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Ease your new love interest into your social circles. Start off by introducing them to a few select friends, particularly those who help you “screen” prospective mates. An introduction to family members, especially parents, and ex’s, even if they are still a part of your life, shouldn’t happen until you are at least approaching a month of dating. Why? Besides being a little weird and moving too fast, you want to wait because it takes a while to establish comfort levels in social situations. This will give you time to learn to recognize each other’s cues and know enough about each other that an “inner circle" situation isn’t uncomfortable.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Keeping Your Distance</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Don’t overwhelm them with attention. Don’t invite yourself over more than once a week, and don’t smother them with physical affection when you are together. You may feel the urge to reach out and touch their sweet face over and over again, but refrain because it is uncomfortable. Men and women often make the mistake of jumping into “couple” behaviors like smooching, holding hands, using terms of endearment, and touching them in sexual ways too soon and scaring off their dates. I will again reiterate that getting to know someone for who they are as an individual should be the focus of a new relationship. Too often, people get caught up in the romance before realizing how little they actually know about their partner.</span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:arial;">Skeletons</span></strong></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Everybody has their dirty little secrets, and it wouldn’t be good for you to go telling them to every person you date, but you might want to drop a hint here and there to test the waters. In those first couple of weeks, be as honest as you would like them to be with you. For some couples, after a few dates and things are going well, it could help to discuss the fact that you both have pasts and that you should share them later on down the road. Just make sure that when that one month mark (or comparable milestone) comes around, you let them know some of the details of the skeletons you alluded to. Otherwise, they become secrets that will surely hinder your relationship.</span></div></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-51265996065330139292009-04-10T06:28:00.000-07:002009-04-10T06:33:45.520-07:00How To Use Body Language To Your Advantage When Dating<span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;"><em>top dating tips</em></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:arial;">This is the language where you don't need any words. Women have been doing it for hundreds of years - to attract the man they want. Becoming fluent in body language will ensure that you will be skilled in attracting the right man, and sending the get-lost signal to the wrong man.</span><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:Arial;"></span> </div><div align="justify"><strong>Eyeing Up the Prize</strong> </div><div align="justify"><br />The more eye contact you establish with the target, the better. Start with some sidelong glances. Then, begin with direct eye contact. Once he turns to meet your gaze, immediately lower your eyes and smile to yourself, this will tell him that you were watching him and are embarrassed that he caught you - a sure sign of interest. Next, be bold and try holding his stare, flashing a small, open-lipped smile.</div><div align="justify"><br />If there is a man that is giving you the eye and you are not interested, look away from him and don`t look back at him again. When in conversation, looking at the ceiling and all around the room, also shows a definite lack of interest. </div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><strong>First Impressions Count</strong> </div><div align="justify"><br />You leave your home ready to go to a party when you spot your gorgeous neighbor, and he doesn't give you a second glance. Why? Because you aren't dressed your best. When you enter a room, most people look to see who has come in. This is when you have to make an impression. Looking your best will make you feel your best. So make sure that before you leave your front door, look your best, and you never know you might just attract the attention of that gorgeous neighbor.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><strong>The Hand Job (no, not what you are thinking!)</strong> </div><div align="justify"><br />Even without direct contact, your hands can send very powerful messages. There are a number of ways to convey that you want to get to know someone. Keeping your hands unclenched shows you're open to him. Using your hands to caress objects, such as the rim of your glass, locks of your hair, or the sleeve of your blouse, in a rhythmic (as opposed to fidgety) manner, can be a sensual act. And for the braver hands, try picking fluff off his jacket, touching him to punctuate a point, or using the "accidental touch" when reaching for the salt.</div><div align="justify"><br />Hands that are jammed in pockets, busy cleaning glasses, or balled in tight fists are all bad signs. Fingers tapping, drumming, pointing, or wagging are also signals to move on.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><strong>Stand Out</strong> </div><div align="justify"><br />Your posture is one of the most telling signals you transmit. An open posture is evidence of an open person. Turning your body toward the man you're conversing with, keeping your feet flat on the floor and leaning forward are actions that show interest. As well, slightly tilting your head, crossing and uncrossing your legs, and thrusting your chest forward give the message that you are interested.</div><div align="justify"><br />As for ways to send a man packing, crossing your arms, holding a drink high in front of you, turning your body away or resting your feet on their toes will tell a person you are not interested.</div><div align="justify"> </div><div align="justify"><strong>A Few Extra Tips</strong></div><strong><div align="justify"><br /></strong>Hopefully by now, you have an attack plan and a clear idea of when it's time to get down and dirty, or when you're best just to wave the white flag. Here are just a few more tips when trying to perfect your body language skills: </div><div align="justify"> </div><ul><li><div align="justify">You'll know things are going really well when you begin "mirroring" one another's body language and gestures. </div></li><li><div align="justify">Don`t tease him by offering more than you plan to follow through. This can lead to very ugly circumstances. </div></li><li><div align="justify">Chain smoking, being extremely intoxicated, or having eyes only for your plate of food will not put you in the best standing for the body language game. </div></li><li><div align="justify">If you try your hand at it, and he's not responding, abort the mission immediately.… </div></li><li><div align="justify">Following him around all night will only serve in making you look needy and desperate. </div></li></ul><p align="justify">And finally, if all else fails, buy yourself a T-shirt that reads, "Looking for Love." </p>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-45589303949350096742009-04-10T05:48:00.000-07:002009-04-10T06:18:59.980-07:00Flirt Through IM<div align="justify">Steps<br /></div><ul><li><div align="justify">Ask yourself "Do you like the guy?" If the answer is no, then do not continue along with the guide. It will send out the wrong signal. </div></li><li><div align="justify">Ask yourself:<br />- Is he a slow typer?<br />- What is his personality like?<br />- Do you know him? </div></li><li><div align="justify">Confused about who should start the conversation? Try and take it in turns and remember don't you always start it, and vice versa! </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Greet the other person. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Come up with things to say about your day and how much it sucked or something to see his response. If he responds seemingly interested, flirt a little with him. If he acted like he wasn't interested, then leave him. Flirting will not help. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Use different lines. Ask about his day and when something happens go "Awwwwwwww" that sounds really cute and can be interpreted in different ways. it's often just flirty enough. All girls know what to say to flirt a little bit. There are many other things you can do such as "*hugs (persons name)*". </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Some playful insults always work, don't go too far though, and put a :P face on the end to show you're not serious. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Use the winking emoticon when needed ;) </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't copy his sayings! If he says "Heyyyy" or something else, don't adopt it. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Make sure you keep the conversation going but, if you always seem to keep it going and he just answers and doesn't think of anything, leave him. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Talk about interests, movies, songs, bands, food, anything really and make sure you don't always agree with what he likes. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">If he asks you about your day, make it interesting. Even if you have to make a little white lie to make it funny/funnier, do it, because guys like girls who make them laugh. Don't go overboard though because he may find out! </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">If he play-insults you then make a shocked or sad face and tell him you expect grovelling or something with a ":P" on the end or a ";)" if you v.confident </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't ask who he fancies. He will tell straight away that you like him.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Speak a bit of slang on IM but not too much...it is boring e.g say Yeah instead of Yh...looks better, doesn't it? </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Emoticons instead of letters look rubbish! Too many emoticons are annoying. It is good to just use the smileys provided on the IM service.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't waffle on about how ugly you are. He will believe it. Have confidence, but not too much.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Make yourself seem fun...but always be yourself. Your best self, of course. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't be too dumb and don't be too smart. Simple! </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Compliment the opposite sex by saying things like "cutie" and "sweetie". Guys, when you talk to a girl you like, say things like "hey pretty girl".</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Avoid awkward pauses in the conversation. If they say something that you don't really care about, but still want to flirt and can't think of what to say, insert an emoticon (i.e. a smiley face). </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Take advantage of the "goodbye" or "goodnight". It is a very pivotal element of your conversation. It is a great way to leave a lasting impression on the individual in interest. Say things like "sweet dreams" and maybe use their name, like "goodnight, Emily". </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">If the guy isnt into you just yet, take things a bit slower.</div></li></ul><p align="justify">Tips</p><ul><li><div align="justify">When trying to flirt on MSN or any other messenger, laugh lightly often (e.g. "haha", "hehe", etc.). It helps conversation and makes him think that you enjoy talking to him. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't respond instantly...it seems like you are too desperate! Leave it for a minute or two and then talk, it also lets you think of what to say.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Make sure it's not always about you, or it's not always about him.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Be honest and non-depressing.</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Hugs are a very affectionate thing to use almost as powerful as kisses but less provocative which is good for a little flirt. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Try to quickly look over what you wrote to avoid spelling/typing errors... You don't want someone to get the wrong message. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">If you really like the person, and they let you know they're interested, go ahead and drop subtle hints. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">These tips are appropriate for younger people, but will make you seem ridiculous if you are older than about twenty. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">If a guy is a slow typer then also type slowly, to see his reaction to everything you say, is his personality shy or extrovert? If it's extrovert then give him very subtle hints only, Do you know the guy? If you know him then flirting on the internet can be a lot harder since you may fear repercussion. If you meet him on a site like MySpace , then be cautious ask him questions and see that he's not a fake. </div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Dont laugh so often, he gets freaked out!</div></li></ul><ul><li><div align="justify">Don't be too pushy if he's busy, or just not replying. You don't know what's going on with him.</div></li></ul>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-42638423735300432112009-04-10T05:07:00.000-07:002009-04-10T06:43:58.463-07:00Flirting Tips Help You Show Interest & Sexy<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6cwAh1GwrcWcoQ4cxl_aImNOkZz0_adP_8xWzyx71I7siEKVvOcoOlhyNG5rGtGwNJlFUzQ4v1EBWlmRMbnfwAQYg5hJYCWikftx9nSPy6DxmPpluZTRUxIT5f-uMbQNB7hDY3gsRTY1E/s1600-h/1.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5323057370123929586" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6cwAh1GwrcWcoQ4cxl_aImNOkZz0_adP_8xWzyx71I7siEKVvOcoOlhyNG5rGtGwNJlFUzQ4v1EBWlmRMbnfwAQYg5hJYCWikftx9nSPy6DxmPpluZTRUxIT5f-uMbQNB7hDY3gsRTY1E/s320/1.jpg" /></a><em><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;">top dating tips</span></em><br /><span style="font-family:arial;"></span><br /><br /><div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">You are at a party and out of nowhere someone is standing close to you. Like a genie, they keep turning up, close by, catching your gaze. You go and chat and they stand in the same position as you, playing with their hair, laughing with you and holding your gaze. This person likes you and is flirting. How do you know? Because without realizing it, you are an expert in flirting and body language.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">What would dating be without flirting. Flirting is fabulous, flirting is fun, flirting is giving out signals that we may be interested in someone, or we may be pretending. But within reason, flirting is part and parcel of our daily lives. Flirting can be harmful when it threatens fidelity but it can also be sexy and bring people closer together. Some people are good at flirting and some people hopeless.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Are you a flirt? If you are you know it and are secretly proud of the fact. It is sexy when you flirt and people like it. Flirting means giving people attention, it means, smiling, touching, whispering. In the right circumstances it is a powerful tool especially against the unwary. In the wrong circumstances it will get you fired. There is a gulf between flirting and unwanted sexual advances so beware.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It is useful to look at some of the key indicators of flirting and they can prove extremely useful when working out if the person across the table from you is interested. The one to keep your eye on the most is "mirroring". Mirroring is when someone copies your body movements whilst retaining eye contact. Its is one of the biggest giveaways there is.</span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Eye Contact</span><br /></div><ul><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained </span></div></li><br /><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow</span></div></li><br /><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Any form of winking </span></div></li><br /><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Rapid eye movement and blinking </span></div></li><br /><li><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual. Men normally look away.</span> </div></li></ul><br /><p align="justify">Hair and Mouth</p><ul><li><div align="justify">Playing with hair in a stroking or toying motion </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Eye contact whilst playing with hair </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Touching your hair at any time</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Lip licking </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Puckering lips in a simulated kiss form</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue </div></li></ul><br /><p align="justify">Body Movement</p><ul><li><div align="justify">The thrusting of chest or breasts outwards whilst holding your gaze </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">The copying of your posture - mirroring </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Holding your gaze whilst moving to music </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Using a posture with legs crossed towards you </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Leaning in towards you whilst holding your gaze </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Open legged posture facing you </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">The display of flesh of arm or thigh<br /></div></li></ul><p align="justify">Touching </p><ul><li><div align="justify">They will want to touch you and will reach out to do so with some excuse</div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">They will offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">They will play with their hands and then with yours</div></li></ul><br /><p align="justify">The Way they Speak</p><ul><li><div align="justify">Their tone and speed of conversation mirrors your own </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">Lots of laughter and questioning tones </div></li><br /><li><div align="justify">In a group, you are singled out by this person for attention even in general conversation and questions. This happened to me in New York and I was taken aback how obvious it was. </div></li></ul><p align="justify">The main thing to remember with flirting is that it is fun and so much more so when you are receptive to it and understand when it is happening to you. The best flirtatious moments will always take you by surprise.</p></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5610667320544222128.post-16898780838880161842009-04-10T04:36:00.000-07:002009-04-10T06:27:50.536-07:00The Best Dating Tips For Men<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:78%;color:#999999;"><em>I Have A Date</em></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">"You must avoid being predictable and boring" .</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">There is nothing worse that will prevent you from attracting beautiful women. This is the first reason, it will come with the dreaded, lets just be friends.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">It is only natural to want to spend time with the most interesting possible. And also, fortunately, we have that choice until we decide to take the relationship further. Male and female. It is natural to want to do anything you like you ... which it probably will, but the attraction will not be created. She knows she must, as someone as good as you, but its buttons are not pushed to create sexual tension.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">What she wants is just a bit of adventure and unpredictability. Now you do not have to turn into James Bond ... Parachute or Night on your first day. What I mean is not to be predictable and fear of offending others How to be unpredictable you ask? Good question ... us. First thing to do is to "always" have a happy and playful attitude about you. This gives you a carefree charisma and fun to be around. That is exactly what you want women to think and say about you. eg"This is Mick, there is always a good time and pleasure to be around." Do not be afraid to take the mickey lady of good naturedly. This will create sexual tension and to show you a man is not afraid to have fun.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">So, you have to laugh a woman, chances are it did not expect what just happened. You gave her laugh and create a pleasant atmosphere. However, it will test your character. Many times, it will be in the form of demands and requests - both direct and indirect. You want to keep the sympathy, but do not want to relinquish any authority or become predictable by instantly caving into her wishes. What to do? DELAY. This is another keyword. It applies to all sorts of aspects of dating, but for now we will focus on spontaneity. Write it down in your agenda / calendar.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">So write it on every page at the top, in bold. Go ahead and be creative. DELAY. What I mean by delay? Say you are at night, and your wife mentions how much she loves Thai food. Do not say anything, and not to go that night. But go two weeks later. It shows reflection - and that you were listening - without any of the wimpy characteristics usually associated with such screens. In addition, she can not wait for the night when the lead and not try to guide him.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">She talks about how she likes the beach. Great to take her when she least expected, like a Friday evening after work. You have the idea. Pay attention to what she loves, but no roster from memory. Do not try to fulfill his desires immediately, but realize your time, at unexpected moments.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">This is one of the most easy to learn, but also one of the easiest to miss a crucial moment when it comes. A little whining and most men lose their head and do whatever is asked of them. Better is to understand that you do not have time for whining, politely but firmly - and over time I think the lady will get what it wants, when you want to give it to her.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">Moreover, all this, it has about a thousand times when it comes to sex. Few things are more sexy that a man who does not lose sight of an exposed breast. If you can control yourself and DELAY satisfaction until you're ready to give more, anticipation is more powerful than is generally act alone - making the act even more powerful when it comes. Yes, I talk about sex. : -] DELAY.</span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;"></span></div><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:arial;">This creates sexual tension and it is much easier to respond quickly as the lady she is very excited. You have one. I hope you enjoyed this article. Have fun and good luck.</span></div>Jenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05876419361999809258noreply@blogger.com0